Dating safety

Never send money

No legitimate match will ask you for money, gift cards, crypto, or your bank details — ever. Our filters automatically remove links and flag payment requests in messages, and flagged accounts are reviewed.

Stay on the platform

Scammers try to move you to WhatsApp or Telegram quickly. Keep conversations here, where they are protected, until you genuinely trust the person.

Look for the teal badge

Verified members have confirmed their email and passed a selfie review (ID verification is rolling out). Use the “verified only” search filter for extra confidence.

Meeting in person

First meetings: public place, tell a friend where you are, arrange your own transport, and video-chat first.

Report anything suspicious

Every profile has Report and Block buttons. Reports go straight to our moderation team. Blocking is instant and the other person is not notified.

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